

Trauma, attachment, and couples counselling in Vancouver. Culturally attuned, gently paced, and shaped to fit you.
I'm Pamela Chin, a Registered Clinical Counsellor based in Kitsilano. I see individuals and couples, both in person at my Vancouver office and online from anywhere in BC.
My work is grounded in trauma and attachment, held within a culturally sensitive and anti-oppressive lens. Whatever you're carrying, old wounds you thought you'd moved past, conflict that keeps repeating with the people you love, a quiet sense of disconnection from yourself, you don't have to keep doing it alone.
This is a space to slow down. To be met with curiosity instead of judgment. To find your way through, one piece at a time.
When you're in the middle of something hard, it can feel messy and daunting. Everything connects to everything else. You can't see the picture yet.
Therapy, at its best, is the patient work of putting the pieces on the table. Naming them. Turning them over. Watching the picture come into focus, slowly, in a way that finally makes sense.
That's the work I do with my clients. We don't rush it. We don't force it. We trust that with the right care and attention, what feels tangled today can become something you understand and live differently tomorrow.

My practice tends to be a fit for people who want more than symptom relief. You want to understand what's underneath, and you want to do that work with someone who actually sees you.
For people navigating trauma, anxiety, attachment wounds, or a sense that something underneath needs attention.
For partners caught in cycles of conflict, disconnection, or quiet drift, whether you're early in the relationship or decades in.
For clients navigating intergenerational expectations, cultural identity, or the tension between Eastern and Western worldviews.
For people who want their faith or spirituality welcomed into the work rather than set aside at the door.
My training spans both talk-based and body-based approaches, so I can shape the work to fit you rather than the other way around.
A confidential, structured space to process emotions, untangle old patterns, and build new coping tools.
Learn moreAn evidence-based trauma treatment that helps the brain process and resolve old, distressing memories.
Learn moreTension and Trauma Releasing Exercises. A body-based approach for releasing chronic tension and helping the nervous system settle.
Learn more"I found this work later in life, and it feels like coming home. Helping people understand themselves and live more fully is not a job for me. It's a calling, and I'm grateful for every person who lets me walk alongside them for part of the journey."
— Pamela Chin, RCC

Reflections and resources on healing, relationships, and finding your way through.



Reaching out is often the hardest step, and you don't have to have it all figured out before you book. That's what the free consultation is for.
Fifteen minutes. No pressure. Just a conversation to see if we're a fit.